We met online Waaay back in the old days, we meet on the Blind Fate Dating Site, and then met for drinks. I asked her to marry me two years later; at midnight of the millennium, she said yes(!) And here we are, 14 years later. 14 years! A few years ago I looked up the origins of the word tenure, she was not too please when I announced I thought I now had tenure. That was a chilly evening. Another neat thing: I actually thought to print out out first conversation -the very first - we had on wpdating. It's made a nice addition to our wedding album. Thank god I wasn't chatting her up on Tinder.